Tuesday, April 26, 2016

Killarney, Ireland

I don't have much time (classes await), but here are some photos of my trip to Killarney!


This pub is the highest pub (in elevation) in Ireland


Future house right here:P





Killarney National Park!







I have never been to a more beautiful place in the world










King Puck: Every year the locals of this town capture a wild goat and crown it King (its later released).

Wednesday, April 13, 2016

Me, Myself, and I

A common phrase I used to be told was "Me, Myself, and I", (I also heard "Each sentence has a Beginning, Middle, and End...get to the End!). Both phrases were reminders that people shouldn't focus on their self so much and should consider other people first. Based on the frequency I heard these phrases growing up, I surmise I had trouble applying them in real life (I often still have trouble:P).

However, sometimes focusing on yourself isn't such a bad thing! For example, learning to accept who you are means analyzing and being happy with what you see. I am no psychiatrist though so don't take this advice as a cure all. I write about this today because lately I realized how much I concern myself with what others think.

When I first arrived in Ireland, I made a mini goal; learn to enjoy silence*. Growing up in a family of 8 kids, there wasn't a whole lot of silence to go around. When I started living in the dorms at my college in Maine, being by myself in the dorm room was almost painful. I felt trapped, and highly alone. I was surrounded by people who I am sure would have invited me into their circle of friends, but I didn't feel comfortable seeking people out. I didn't expand my friend base further than two or three people.

The opposite occurred in Cork though! Maybe it is because I know I have the option to get up and do anything I want, but sitting alone in my apartment in Cork is relaxing (my amazing view might have something to do with that too...). The other night I sat thinking to myself, I actually have come to enjoy the silence! It isn't oppressive like it once was!

What does this have to do with accepting who you are? Good question! It was during one of these moments of silence in which I was having a conversation with myself (yes...I talk to myself in my head, even make jokes :P) that I realized it doesn't matter what other people think of you. They will never truly experience the real "you". What they see is a facade, a reflection, even a caricature of your true self. The only person who will truly know you is you. Now, I know this won't be the end of my worrying if someone thinks I am rude, loud, or obnoxious etc, but it is one step closer to believing that my inner self isn't comprised of how others measure me. This sort of thing isn't a new theory, however sometimes you need to have an epiphany yourself before you can believe something.  So cheers to self-discover!

*Another goal I made was to finally memorize when to use semi-colons versus colons...those things are tricky!

** I suppose I should edit and say I was a hypocrite that week, and this post was my nemesis.  I am currently stuck between two worlds: One in which I like other to take lead in projects, and the second where I naturally take lead (I just have discovered yet if thats a good thing or if people appreciate it).I just worry that people think I am overstepping boundaries, but at the same time someone needs to lead, thus...my quandary. All well, live and learn they say!


A few photos of my trip to Bantry and Garnish Island with the other International Students:












Seals!


Saturday, April 2, 2016

Spring Break Baby!

Warning- Bad News Ahead: ...Spring Break is over... Sorry, did I disappoint you? I know, I disappointed myself too.

As mentioned in my last post, I went to Dublin last week for the first four days of my break. Then this week (yes - we had a two week vacation :D) was spent reading as many books as I could, going on long walks, and chowing down on junk food. Basically, I had the best week of my life. I know, I'm pretty awesome like that.

If I'm being honest though, other than going on a few long walks this week to explore the area, I pretty much just spent the entire week relaxing. Sometimes you need to take a step back and just do the things you have been longing to do, like reading and eating chocolate. The last time I was able to spend days reading was probably back in high school. (I won't crack a joke that starts with "In my day...", I'll wait 20 more years before pulling that one out). However, now that I have around 26 hours left before the end of my spring break, I'm feeling bittersweet. It will be nice to get back to classes, but I really really really don't want to focus on projects. What can I say, I'm a slight procrastinator.

The next few weeks will undoubtable be a bit busy as project deadlines approach. I'll try squeezing some interesting things in there though to keep you all amused :P.


You have to admit...its pretty sexy.




I fit some baking into my hectic schedule of relaxation

Yes, this is a cake from a Dublin bakery #friedchicken